You’re Not Broken

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CHAPTER ONE: THE JOURNEY OF CREATING A LIFE YOU LOVE

 As humans, we all go on a predictable journey, don’t we? While growing up, I saw most adults living the same experiences, and to my childlike worldview, their lives seemed dull, boring, and lifeless. I always had a sense there was more, and it took fifteen years of my adult life to discover just how much more there is.

Many of us have asked the questions: “Why are we here?” or “What is the meaning of life?” We find ourselves lost or confused. Is our life really about finding a good job, getting married, and raising a family? Surely, there has to be more.

All humans start off in the same place—as a pure creative energy. The unfortunate thing is most people never reach their full potential as creators. They stay stuck in an oscillating pattern, never reaching a life they love, and always in a struggle with themselves and the world. It doesn’t seem to matter how much “work they do on themselves” or how many books they read; they seem to only be able to create short-term progress in one area of life and come crashing back to “reality” in others.

Why don’t we all have everything we desire? Are we born to just struggle from birth to death?

• You may feel like you have an internal conflict going on from choosing between:
• what you love to create and what you actually experience in life.
• going for it and playing it safe.
• being your authentic self and conforming to others’ expectations.
• self-confidence and self-doubt

 

I have found most people are settling in certain areas of life. They’ve stopped dreaming, stopped going for it, and settled into predictable patterns. I get it. It can be difficult to know what you should really go for. I also know that if you are reading this book, you are one of the few who have identified this pattern and decided you want more.

OBSTACLES TO THE LIFE YOU LOVE

You may have even made the decision to “go for more” long ago, and you’ve been on a lifelong journey to achieve the “dream life.” You progressed in some areas and remained stagnant in others. I have worked with thousands of people in my coaching and workshops. Nearly all of them desire to create more success in their life, but for some reason, they have not. After all this time, I have found three big problems that nearly everyone struggles with:

1. THEY ARE IN A PROBLEM/POWERLESS STRUCTURE WITH WHAT THEY DESIRE.

They have given the power to outside conditions. Some make them feel good—a relationship, health, money, and status. Some make them feel bad—failure, rejection, judgment, bad health, and being single. This structure, as you will learn, is the biggest problem for people who desire big transformation. You must get out of the oscillating structure and into a flowing structure, where every end result you go for is easy to move towards, achieve, and keep for the long term.

2. THEY DON’T ACTUALLY WANT WHAT THEY THINK THEY WANT.

They don’t actually want the business; they want to love their day. They don’t actually want the sports car; they want respect. They don’t know what they truly desire. They have never been allowed to simply connect to what they love and create a life based on that. Instead, others have told them what to go for—the media, parents, society, peers, and worst of all, personal development speakers who make them write down worthless crap they think they want. They are told to “dream bigger” rather than to find what they really love.

I have one rule when it comes to deciding what you really want to create: that you would love to see it created. That’s it. If there are other reasons, you are not in a true choice! Create end results that you love; no other reason is needed.

This may seem very different than what you were told growing up or what you see in the world. Most people are really only going for things they believe will get them somewhere better or will solve a problem. Most are not creating a life they love.

3. THEY HAVE FORGOTTEN WHO AND WHAT THEY REALLY ARE—A PURE CREATIVE ENERGY THAT HAS ALREADY DECIDED AND CREATED EVERYTHING.

Most are not living from the truth of what they are—their power is given away, and they feel powerless to circumstances and conditions. There is always something against them. There is always something to fight—health challenges, relationship problems, the government, or society. So, they decide to fight this imaginary enemy by using outside forces—people, relationships, medication, education, drugs, seminars, workshops, or therapy, only to find any real change that occurs is due to reconnecting to the creative energy they really are.

To get over these obstacles, you will need to realize you are Superconscious. When you learn to create from the Superconscious, you have access to all the knowledge there has ever been. You can Recode original instructions, manifest miraculous transformations, and be the powerful creator you always were.

FROM PREDICTABLE PATH TO SUPERCONSCIOUS CREATOR

In our society, we all follow a predictable path. When you decide to become a Superconscious creator, you make the “shift” as shown in this illustration.

THE JOURNEY TO SUPERCONSCIOUS LIVING

The following is a brief breakdown of this journey.

1.  CREATIVE ENERGY

We all start out having it all. We are a pure creative energy connected to the unified field of all possibilities. Our mothers carry us around in the womb, and we have everything—food, water, oxygen…everything. Then suddenly, we realize we do not have it all simply by existing. We realize we are an individual who is separate from others.

 

2. INDIVIDUATION

When we are born, we become an individual. Now, we have to do something to get enough food and water to ensure our survival. We realize we can do something to get love/ attention from our parents, and we can do something to lose it. We realize there is a “way to be” that is successful. We believe there’s a way to be a better human (more validated) and a way to be less than.

We learn that if we do something good, we get praise; if we do something bad, we get told off. We realize what is good and bad. We learn what is right and wrong. We learn how to ensure we get Mum’s love and Dad’s praise.

This loss of “having it all” is very painful and unacceptable. To make sense of this new world, we make up beliefs about ourselves to ease the pain.

These beliefs create our orientation to the world and can sound like:

• If I just _____  then I will achieve/be/have
• If I just _____  then I will avoid

 

3.  STUCK IN A POWERLESS/PROBLEM ORIENTATION

Because of our focus on how we are limited, we set up a worldview that our life is about completing ourselves or solving the negative beliefs/limitations.

There are six sabotaging beliefs that cause huge problems for people who want to create a life they love. We will cover these in Chapter 3. These beliefs are the underlying structure of all motivation, and it becomes our life purpose to resolve them. However, in the attempt to overcome the belief, our identity gets caught in the belief, and we can never truly escape it.

For example, if you didn’t get attention growing up except for when you did something amazing, you may decide you are not worthy of love/attention just the way you are and set up a structure to do amazing things to finally prove you are worthy. You will get really motivated and set a big goal, and move towards it. However, as soon as you get close to achieving it, you will find a way to sabotage it.

This is a setup. You don’t achieve your goal because if you were to actually “make it,” you would have to accept you are worthy, and your former identity would be lost; you would no longer know who you are.

 Your identity gets wrapped up in the not-worthy view. You never accept your worth and spend a lifetime chasing a moving goal post when what you really wanted was avail- able the whole time.

 This example reflects the oscillating pattern in people’s lives. They simply have an identity conflict, and their results move back and forth like a pendulum.

 With a powerless/problem-orientation, they can never solve the negative belief about themselves. If they were no longer “not good enough,” who would they be? Conversely, they can never truly be not good enough because that is far too painful, so they live somewhere in the middle.

 Does this sound familiar? Stuck in the middle, never fully being not good enough and never fully feeling good enough.

Each of the six sabotaging beliefs works in a similar way; they keep us stuck in patterns, unable to have what we desire.

 The more you try to resolve a way in which you feel incom- plete, the more you give your power away and stay stuck in an oscillating pattern. The more you try to fix it, the worse it gets.

 There is a real, big problem with the problem-orientation.

 

4.  THE CREATIVE ORIENTATION

The only way to move towards your goals without sabotage is to let go of that structure.

The first thing you must do is get in the correct structure. You will learn how in Chapter 5.

 In short, you must learn to let go of the old structure and create a new way of being in the world. You must define yourself as a powerful creator, not a powerless victim. This is the big TURNING POINT.

 You do not need to be anything other than who you are to create everything you desire.

 You are the creative spirit who created everything you have in your life. You have just forgotten.

You must connect to your Superconscious and create a new set of instructions for your Unconscious to follow. You must learn to Recode all resistance so you can have it all now.

 This is the first step—to orient from a place of power!

 You can have everything you desire now! EVERYTHING!!! And you can still be motivated to create more.

 Most people think if they had everything now, they would no longer be motivated because their whole lives have been about overcoming problems.

 However, this belief is the problem.

Once you realize and accept you can have everything you want now—abundance, love, joy, family, health, and fun— and you fully understand that you create it all, you will realize that:

• You can’t do anything to be more worthy.
• You can’t do anything to be more or less enough.
• You can’t be more significant.
• You can’t be more capable.
• You can’t belong more.
• You are perfect now.

 

When we connect with the Superconscious, we realize we actually have it all already, and there is no need to solve or fix anything. From this perspective, we can choose or Recode any belief structures to fit with the life we desire. The truth you will find is that you can have it all now and still be motivated to create what you love. You can actually choose what you would love to create because you are no longer problem-solving.

 Before this moment, everything you did was in service of a “better” future. As soon as you believe there is a better future, you have fallen back into a problem-orientation. Letting go of the problem orientation is not easy. I have seen people struggle for months, even years, to make the shift, but shifting into the “creative orientation” is the first step to becoming a Superconscious creator. To shift into the creative orientation, you come from a place of already having what you desire, instead of a place of lack or problem-solving. To be in the creative orientation, you must BE it to SEE it. You must become “it” before it comes to be. Being whole now is the goal now.

 You must let go of the childish wound and desire to finally validate yourself in this world.

 There is nothing you can do to be more or less. You, me, and every other human have the same value.

 

5. THE MAGNETIC MOMENT

In this book, I will reference the “wizard’s gate,” a term that describes the process of opening to the present moment. It is like a doorway of your perception, where you drop into your heart awareness, or innocence, and become connected to your Superconscious. When you go through the wizard’s gate, there is nothing that can make life better. You have reconnected to the unified field. You are everything. From this point, you can shift and change any instructions you have coded into your reality, and you can access super-conscious awareness.

 The wizard’s gate is the perfect metaphor to explain what you must do to step into a new reality and accept the magnetic moment—the moment when you have everything now and create from a place of already being what you desire. Again, this is not about problem-solving. We leave that old reality behind.

This is the shift or turning point that takes you from the powerless orientation to the powerful orientation. It is the second big move towards creating a life you love.

 You claim the magnetic moment.

The magnetic moment is when you have everything you desire NOW. You have become “it.” You have become the person who is 100 percent in alignment with your desire.

You can absolutely be happy now, fully satisfied in life, and inspired to create more.

Many people have only ever been motivated to do something based on how it will improve their life; by claiming the magnetic moment, you have it all now and let go of your old structure.

Luckily, you hold in your hands the fastest and easiest way to do this. As we go through this process, you will see how the NOW can be EVERYTHING you could ever ask for, and included in that NOW is the ability to create something you love, just because you love it.

You can reorient and create a new structure, one that easily sails to the destination you desire while enjoying every minute.

 You must learn to connect to your Superconscious and Recode the instructions.

 You must stop the self-sabotage/worry/fear.

 

6. CREATE YOUR TRUE END RESULTS

There are many things you could focus on creating in this lifetime, but only some of them are what you truly love. Creating what you love is our priority. To do so, we will first focus on creating the magnetic moment, so you are in a creative orientation and not problem-solving.

 You may need to focus on making this shift for a number of months because you have been in the problem-orientation for decades. The old patterns are hard-wired into your neu- rology. You must open the gate and have it all now. Only then can you create from a place of no resistance and not fight your identity the whole way.

 To enter the magnetic moment and step into the new structure, you need to make four core choices as a Superconscious creator. 

The four core choices to reorient yourself are:

• I choose to live my true nature and purpose.
• I choose to be the predominant creative force in my life.
• I choose to live a life I love.
• I choose to be healthy and vital.

 

Until you are living these four, you won’t be ready to move to the second level of Superconscious creation. These are the basic building blocks to create the structure that allows flow to happen.

Every single person on the planet can choose these four now. They are not problem-solving. 

They create:

• A new reality.
• A new structure.
• A new orientation.

 

Once you have “mastered the magnetic moment” and are living the core four choices, it is time to tune into what you would really love to create. Now, life gets magical!

 What would you really love to create for no reason other than you would just love to have it?

This is your truth. This is why you are on the planet, and there is nothing more fulfilling than turning your highest desires/loves into reality. Life becomes so much fun!

 

7. LIVING A SUPERCONSCIOUS LIFE

Now you have the ability to turn thoughts into things. You have entered the wizard’s gate and connected to the moment. You are truly satisfied with what you have and are in joy of creating more. Life is fun.

 Now you can follow a few core principles and structures to make creating your end results even easier. You can create what you love, knowing NOTHING will give or take away your core satisfaction in life. You get to use the Five-Step Superconscious Creator Code in many different ways. You will use it in a specific way each day and each week, removing resistance and taking action. Each month, quarter, and year, you will use it to get clear insight and intuition on where you should be going and to ensure what you are creating is a true choice.

 Living this way is a gift and full of wonderful surprises. You will have it all and be able to manifest anything and everything you truly desire!

 Now that you know the journey and where we are going, it’s time to understand each step and exactly how to make it happen. Let’s get straight into the next chapter to really understand what the Superconscious is.

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